I am a mother of two kids, one in highschool and one in elementary, one a girl and one a boy. I am married and have a close family. I hear stories from kids now that blow my mind and my eyes have been opened to our new world, it is scary.
I am not a prude, I am not religious and I have no problems with sex, I am in my thirties and I work full time. I am a modern and open minded woman.
My problem is how sex is used in everything in this day and age and nothing is sacred or respected anymore. Sex is a gift you give someone and I don`t care if it is in marriage or a one night stand, it still should be with consent from the people involved and both people should feel good about it and comfortable about it. Sex is a way of communication and a way to connect with another person, it is not for one person`s enjoyment only or to make someone feel less about themselves. Computers and porn should not be taking the place of real people and there is no connection or intimacy with a box with pixels. People are losing their want to connect with people in person, for real and for the right reasons. Everyone needs intimacy and care and love, everyone, but this is being stolen from people and it is causing major problems. This is turning people into objects and people are much more than that!!!!
My problem is that women are used and abused for cheap entertainment and to sell crap. My problem is that no one seems to see a problem with this and everyone seems to have become immune to what is going on. Kids see this, kids learn from it and kids are not being taught proper morals or values. Parents have no idea what their kids are learning, seeing or being asked. Kids are not learning respect for themselves or others, to appreciate others for the right reasons and are hurting each other and this is making for some screwed up adults. The damage being done is starting to show but it is only going to get worse. Over 50% percent of divorces now have some sort of porn involved and that is scary. We are damaging our families and kids, we are allowing our kids to be hurt and to treat others like objects. It is disgusting and needs to stop, we need to do our jobs as parents.
Thank you for taking the time to read my site and to learn so you can help your kids and any other kids you know or other adults even. Be a source of inspiration and not part of the problem, stand up and say this is not ok. Teach your kids about what is really important in life. Show them how to have a good future!!!! Make them believe in themselves and to care about others. Kids learn from their parents, set an example, show them what marriage is and what relationships are about and most of all to love themselves and to value themselves for who they are, unique, smart and talented individuals!