Well I have caught my son watching porn three times now.  He is 11!!!  First time he was nine, second time was last year at age 10 and now again last week at age 11.  We have taken is ipod away and he has strict computer rules, no going on the computer unless someone is in the room with you.  This breaks my heart and even though we explained why he cannot go on those sites the first time, then again the second time and also gave some pretty major consequences or major to him (if he does not stay off of those sites and talk to us when he sees those sites, hockey may have to go), he still went on them.  This is a huge deal!!!! He loves hockey but it was not enough to make him stop and he went on anyways.  We are having to watch him like a hawk now and this scares me so very much.  I do not want my child wrecking his life because of this crap and I do not want him wrecking any girls lives that he may date, be friends with or even marry.  This shit will steal your soul and leave you an empty selfish objectifying loser and I do not want that for my children, I do not want them losing themselves in this mess.  Please parents be aware of what your kids are doing!!!  Check on them, check their phones and ipods and computers, it is your job!!!

I posted a good new documentary under references that you all need to watch.  Porn is not what it used to be and it is destroying our kids.  My son has the images of violent, objectifying sex burned into his mind now and that is not at all what sex is about, somehow I need to help him get those out of his head and teach him what sex is and why we do it and it has nothing to do with what is shown in porn nowadays.  It is not making a girl gag and choke, it is not about hurting her and using her as a masturbation tool, it is not about humilitation and pain.  I hate this shit and I hate that our kids can see it so easily everywhere.  I hate that people watch it which just makes them make even more of it.  I hate that I am a woman being compared to those used up, drug addicted, hopeless, fake, broken girls and women and I hate that starting with porn leads to so many other terrible things, trafficking, child porn and violence and abuse directed towards women.  I hate it, I hate it all and I hate my husband for bringing this shit into my home for my young son to see. 

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    I am a wife and  mother of two, a highschool daughter and elementary aged son.  I am hardworking, loving, fun and supportive and I never thought this issue would touch my life but it has in more ways than one.  I want to bring more awareness to this major problem in our society and maybe can help someone along the way too.
    - Cam

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