Well today I wanted to do something productive and this is what I came up with.
It is my hope that this may help someone else, bring awareness to this huge life damaging problem and to help myself heal.
To give a little background on myself and how this issue has touched me recently and throughout my life, I will be writing here:)
This will be a firsthand account of how porn, objectification and media/technology can affect your life and those lives of the people you care about.
I will be writing from a Wife's perspective, Mom's perspective, Aunt's perspective, Woman's perspective and that of a person who has had enough of not being enough in this world we live in. It angers me that you cannot be yourself anymore, what comes out of your mouth dosen't matter, what you create dosen't matter and the goodness you do does not matter. We live in a world of instant gratification and lack of intimacy and morals. People have lost their values or have stuffed them so far away to enable them to act however they want and to treat others like crap. People are not to be used for others cheap entertainment, people should be worthy and important because of who they truly are not by how people say they should be, not by how the media tells us who we should be, mainly women.
What happened to us? What happened to sex being a gift we gave someone not something that was expected of us? Why are kids not being taught what sex is about and that it is more than just the act or going through the motions? Why aren't they seeing what real sex should be and what intimacy between two people should look and feel like? We are robbing our kids of a happy life, we are hindering them and letting technology and media teach them about sex, love and intimacy and that is wrong.
It is my hope that this may help someone else, bring awareness to this huge life damaging problem and to help myself heal.
To give a little background on myself and how this issue has touched me recently and throughout my life, I will be writing here:)
This will be a firsthand account of how porn, objectification and media/technology can affect your life and those lives of the people you care about.
I will be writing from a Wife's perspective, Mom's perspective, Aunt's perspective, Woman's perspective and that of a person who has had enough of not being enough in this world we live in. It angers me that you cannot be yourself anymore, what comes out of your mouth dosen't matter, what you create dosen't matter and the goodness you do does not matter. We live in a world of instant gratification and lack of intimacy and morals. People have lost their values or have stuffed them so far away to enable them to act however they want and to treat others like crap. People are not to be used for others cheap entertainment, people should be worthy and important because of who they truly are not by how people say they should be, not by how the media tells us who we should be, mainly women.
What happened to us? What happened to sex being a gift we gave someone not something that was expected of us? Why are kids not being taught what sex is about and that it is more than just the act or going through the motions? Why aren't they seeing what real sex should be and what intimacy between two people should look and feel like? We are robbing our kids of a happy life, we are hindering them and letting technology and media teach them about sex, love and intimacy and that is wrong.
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